In 2020, the year of plans that never came to fruition; I booked my bucket-list vacation: Iceland. Captivated by the unique landmasses of volcanoes, geysers,
keep reading!I believe that especially as women, we speak down to ourselves because we are conditioned not to be boastful or take pride in our accomplishments. Using qualifying statements like, ‘I’m not sure’ when answering a question, or ‘I might be able to do that’ when taking on a task. We want to give ourselves a cushion in case we fail–but doing so ultimately ensures that we do fail.
keep reading!While grappling has had a significant impact on my emotional well-being; it has not always been to my advantage. In fact, at several points in my jiu jitsu journey I have contemplated quitting altogether because it became a source of frustration, anxiety, and self-doubt. Over the past year I have been able to reevaluate my relationship with the sport with the deliberate intention of addressing my mindset. Looking inward, I discovered that I was relying on jiu jitsu to automatically heal me. The reality is that I learned I could use jiu jitsu as a tool in my arsenal to cope with emotional challenges.
keep reading!A skill my coach has been trying to reinforce in me is not to look at him when he is coaching me. As soon as I turn my head to see if my coach is going to reassure me, my attention is pulled away from the roll. For obvious reasons, this can’t be happening when I’m competing. But why am I so eager to look around the room when I am at practice?
keep reading!Although many of us are in jiu jitsu for recreation, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a low priority. But doesn’t it seem irresponsible to put training before… more important matters?
keep reading!I feel as a woman there is a unique kind of pressure to strive for this carefully-curated lifestyle–you know the type. The ‘influencer’ life. The mother who not only gets her kids to school on time, but packs them adorably-arranged homemade lunches each day. The artist with a studio full of projects waiting to be sold for clamoring fans. The athlete who collects gold medals while wearing those perfectly-matching sweat-wicking outfits and a ponytail that magically stays in place.
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keep reading!The first time I jumped into a BJJ tournament, I was as novice as they come–maybe 2 or 3 months into taking classes? NAGA was
keep reading!Grappling is therapeutic. It can also be stressful, frustrating, and time-consuming. These tips can help get you to the mat when you need it the most.
keep reading!Female black belts are still a rarity in our sport, and it is even more extraordinary to find a woman who is the owner and head instructor of her own BJJ academy. Juliana Fontoura gave me a peek into the rewards of instructing and gym ownership, as well as how being a female in leadership sets her academy apart.
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